Wednesday, March 31, 2010

WEDNESDAY MORNING MUSIC - BLOOD, SWEAT & TEARS

By Debbie Bulloch



Blood, Sweat & Tears (also known as "BS&T") is an American music group, originally formed in 1967 in New York City. BS&T is best known for the fusing of rock, blues, pop music, horn arrangements and jazz improvisation into a hybrid that came to be known as "jazz-rock."

Unlike "jazz fusion" bands, which tend toward virtuosic displays of instrumental facility and some experimentation with electric instruments, the songs of Blood, Sweat & Tears merged the styling of rock, pop and R&B/soul music with big band, while also adding elements of 20th Century Classical and small combo jazz traditions.

Canadian singer and musician David Clayton-Thomas led the band during its most successful period. In January 2006, David’s song (recorded with BS&T) "Spinning Wheel," was inducted into the Canadian Songwriters Hall of Fame.

For your listening pleasure, here are some of BS&T’s best songs.

BS&T - I Can’t Quit Her



BS&T - I Love You More Than You’ll Ever Know



BS&T - And When I Die



BS&T – Spinning Wheel



And here is my favorite BS&T song:

BS&T – You Made Me So Very Happy

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

CALIFORNIA TEENAGE GIRL SAILS SOLO AROUND THE WORLD

By Debbie Bulloch



Abby Sunderland is a 16 year-old girl from Thousand Oaks, California. On January 24, 2010, Abby embarked on a solo-sailing journey around the world. The trip, approximately 24,500 miles long (39,429 km), will take approximately 5 to 6 months to complete.

Having turned 16 on Oct. 19, Abby is chasing a record now held by British 17-year-old Mike Perham, who took the mark last August from Abby's brother Zac.

But Perham's mark could be beaten soon by Australia's 16-year-old Jessica Watson, born five months earlier than Abby and currently in the middle of a round-the-world solo voyage.

Zac was 17 when he completed a 13-month trip last July, heading west across the Pacific.

Unlike Zac and the others, Abby plans no stops on land, and she has a faster yacht designed for the giant swells and 60-knot winds she will face on a different route: starting south from California, past

The nonstop itinerary would give her an added distinction as the youngest person to sail around the world "unassisted," topping Australia's Jesse Martin, who did it at 18 in 1999.

To read more about Abby’s incredible journey click here:

Abby’s Blog

And here:

Thousand Oaks Teenage Sailor

Good luck and smooth sailing to Abby and to Jessica Watson – may the wind always be at your back.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

SPRING IS HERE - THE RETURN OF THE PELICANS

By Debbie Bulloch






With the official start of Spring, life seems to be getting a bit sweeter in Southern California. Gone are the storm clouds that had been shrouding the Southland with a dark, cold and gloomy cover.



The last few days, Southern Californians have been basking in the warm rays of a glorious Sun. Warm days and clear skies are back - the promise of a fun Summer beckons tantalizingly ahead.

With the return of warm, sunny days, a small miracle has taken place in Southern California. If you recall, I have written several articles about the damage that the recent storms caused to the population of California’s brown pelican. Following the storms, sick or dying pelicans began to wash ashore. There were reports of very sick pelicans flying inland searching for food. Pelican rehabilitation centers were filled with sick birds in need of rescue.

Scientists were baffled by the sudden and pervasive pelican die off. While they looked for clues to explain the pelicans’ deaths, the birds continued to die in large numbers.

In the weeks following the storms, I saw the bodies of dead pelicans along the bike trails that I normally ride. The skies above the beach, which were usually filled with dozens of pelicans flying in formation like ancient Pterodactyls, were empty of the birds. In the lagoon at the mouth of the Ventura River, home for a large group of brown pelicans, there were only a few pelicans swimming with the other birds.





Then last Sunday I went for my usual bike ride on by the beach on Pacific Coast Highway. As I rounded a corned and faced the ocean, a wonderful sight greeted my eyes. Flying in circles above the water was a whole bunch of brown pelicans.

When I took a closer look, I saw the reason for the pelicans’ sudden appearance. Swimming near the water’s surface there must have been a school of fish. The pelicans flew in big circles over the school of fish, then dove into the water to pick up a fish and then returned to air to get back in line. Watching the pelicans fly over the school of fish was like watching people waiting at a sushi super buffet line.






After a cold, wet winter when the storms almost killed off the pelicans, it was good to see that Mother Nature still cares and protects its critters.

Thanks Mom!

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

HAPPY St. PATRICK'S DAY

By Debbie Bulloch



For everyone who is Irish - or wishes he or she was Irish...have a wonderful St. Patrick's Day.

ERIN GO BRAG! IRELAND FOREVER!













RIVERDANCE



IRISH TAP DANCE



Wednesday, March 10, 2010

SAD LOVE SONGS...

By Debbie Bulloch


Losing at love is never easy.

As B.J. Thomas sang in a song that was popular back in the ‘70s:

So please play for me a sad melody
So sad that it makes everybody cry-y-y-y
A real hurtin' song about a love that's gone wrong
'cause I don't want to cry all alone








Here are three songs about lost love.

BREAD – Everything I Own





WILLIE NELSON – You Were Always On My Mind





THE RIGHTEOUS BROTHERS – You’ve Lost That Loving Feeling





EDITOR’S NOTE: The two black and white photos were taken at the Sculpture Garden in the Norton Simon Museum. The Norton Simon Museum in located in Pasadena, California. The Simon collections include European paintings, sculpture, tapestry and remarkable sculpture from South Asia. Outside gardens house sculpture and a pond. The museum is located along the route of the Tournament of Roses Parade, where its distinctive, brown tile-exterior can be seen in the background on television.

The museum features a theater which shows films throughout the day. It hosts lectures, symposia, and dance and musical performances year-round.

The first photograph is of a sculpture by French – Catalan sculptor Aristide Maillol (December 8, 1861 – September 27, 1944). The subject of nearly all of Maillol's mature work is the female body, treated with a classical emphasis on stable forms. The figurative style of his large bronzes is perceived as an important precursor to the greater simplifications of Henry Moore and Alberto Giacometti, and his serene classicism set a standard for European (and American) figure sculpture until the end of World War II.

He died in Banyuls, France at the age of eighty-three, in an automobile accident. A large collection of Maillol's work is maintained at the Musée Maillol in Paris, which was established by Dina Vierny, Maillol's model and platonic companion during the last 10 years of his life.

The sculpture on this photograph is called Le Montagne, (The Mountain) and was sculpted by Maillol in 1937. Dina Vierny was the model for this work.

The second photograph is of a bronze sculpture by British sculptor Henry Moore (July 30 1898 – August 31 1986). Moore was an English sculptor and artist. He was best known for his abstract monumental bronze sculptures which are located around the world as public works of art.

Moore was born in Castleford, the son of a self-taught Irish mining engineer. Henry became well-known through his larger-scale abstract cast bronze and carved marble sculptures, and was instrumental in introducing a particular form of modernism to the United Kingdom.

His forms are usually abstractions of the human figure, typically depicting mother-and-child or reclining figures. Moore's works are usually suggestive of the female body, apart from a phase in the 1950s when he sculpted family groups. His forms are generally pierced or contain hollow spaces. Many interpreters liken the undulating form of his reclining figures to the landscape and hills of his birthplace, Yorkshire. Maillol was a big influence in Moore’s work.

The Art Gallery of Ontario (Ontario, Canada) houses the largest public collection of Moore’s works in the world.

The third, and final photograph depicts a worker bee “working” a flower. It was taken on the gardens of the Gene Autry Museum, in Griffith park, Los Angeles, California.

All photographs © 2009 – 2010 by DB. All rights reserved.

TALENT ABOUNDS AT BETWEEN HOMES

At Between Homes we have some very talented residents. Two of those residents immediately come to mind.

First is Bird Thor. I have known Bird for a very long time. In addition to being a good friend, Bird is also a very talented writer. Bird's mother tongue is Swedish, in which she has written many articles about Vikings and Viking history. Bird can also express herself quite well in short, eloquent poetry written in English.

Here is one sample of Bird's poem:

A child is born -By Bird Thor

A child is born in joy
A mother smile at the little baby
pink skin and small feet
joy for a family
But they grow up so fast
One day they’re out

At Between Homes we also have very talented graphic designers. One of them is Rogers Albatros. Rogers has contributed many posters and photos to BH. Here is a sample of Rogers's work. (I really love the subject of this particular poster. OK, I can be just as vain as the next person!)

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

SEXUAL EXPLOITATION OF CHILDREN IS ON THE RISE

By Debbie Bulloch



In the aftermath following the deaths of two Southern California young women, Amber Dubois and Chelsea King, there has been renewed focus on the issue of violence against women, especially young women.

Human trafficking is a particularly egregious form of violence. Unfortunately, human trafficking is on the rise. I have previously written on the issue of human trafficking and its pernicious effect on its young victims - be they male or female.

At a recent public forum, held in Oxnard, California, expert Susan Bissell spoke about human trafficking and sexual exploitation. Ms. Bissell is intimately familiar with the subject of sexual exploitation; she survived sexual abuse by a family member and ran away as a teenager, only to be sexually exploited by an employer.

Speaking in front of an audience of about 65 people, Ms. Bissell said, “Sexual exploitation and abuse of children is becoming more common.” Ms. Bissell then added, that the Internet is partially responsible for the increase number of incidents of sexual exploitation of children.

To read the full article, please go here: Sexual Exploitation and Abuse of Children Is On The Rise

I have stated it before, and I will repeat it again: as a society we simply cannot stand idly by while our society’s most vulnerable members are being used and exploited. Children are our society’s our future. If we continue to turn a blind eye to the abuse, exploitation and mistreatment of children we will be contributing to the destruction of our species.

For more information on the magnitude of the problem and on ways that you can help children, please go here: Silver Braid Project

Let’s make this a safer and more joyful world for future generations.

Thank you.

Sunday, March 7, 2010

THE COVE WINS OSCAR FOR BEST DOCUMENTARY

By Debbie Bulloch



Last October I wrote an article called The Dolphin Killing Fields.

In the article, I documented the slaughter of dolphins that occurs every year in the Japanese town of Taiji. The town of Taiji is located at the tip of the Kii peninsula, south of Kyoto. During the slaughter season, which runs from October through March, more than 3,000 small whales and striped, bottlenose and spotted dolphins have been slaughtered for meat that ends up on the tables of local homes and restaurants and in vacuum-packed bags in supermarkets. According to environmentalists, this is probably the single, largest annual cull of cetaceans – about 26,000 year-round around coastal Japan - in the world.

The dolphin hunts are notoriously brutal. Local dolphin hunters erect blue tarpaulin sheets to block the main viewing spots overlooking the cove where the killings take place to prevent picture taking. The hunt starts just outside the cove, where a small fleet of hunting boats surrounds a pod of migrating dolphins. The hunters then lower metal poles into the sea and bang them to frighten the animals and to disrupt their sonar. Once the panicking, thrashing dolphins are herded into the narrow cove, the hunters attack them with knives, turning the sea bloody red before dragging the wounded and dying animals to a harbor-side warehouse where the surviving dolphins are slaughtered.

In my article, I also mentioned a wonderful documentary film titled The Cove. In that film, the filmmakers document the terrible cruelty of the hunt, how these intelligent mammals are herded into a small cove and then beaten to death by the Japanese “fishermen.” The documentary is a powerful reminder of man’s cruelty to the animals that share our planet with us.

Tonight, during the 82nd Academy Awards ceremony, The Cove, won an “Oscar” for best documentary film. Winning an Oscar will undoubtedly bring additional exposure to the plight of the Taiji dolphins. Maybe now Taiji’s residents will be persuaded to end the cruel and needless practice of the dolphin killing fields.

Congratulations to the men and women who worked in The Cove (Official Website).

SAD NEWS UPDATE:

San Diego police has just reported that the body of missing 14-year-old Amber Dubois was found buried in shallow grave just outside of San Diego.

Body of 14 year old girl is found by San Diego Police

There will be no justice until the world stops being a scary and unsafe place for girls and young women.

Rest in Peace Amber. You and Chelsea were two bright lights in an otherwise dark and worrisome world.

We offer our most sincere and heartfelt condolences to Amber’s parents, family and friends.

Thursday, March 4, 2010

THURSDAY MUSIC - MAD WORLD

By Debbie Bulloch



This song was made popular by the movie Donnie Darko.

The movie Donnie Darko is one of my favorite movies. It touches upon many themes. If you have not seen it yet, I highly recommend it.

The song, Mad World is a melancholic little tune, but it somehow fits my mood as of late.

Enjoy!





MAD WORLD - GARY JULES and MICHAEL ANDREWS



MAD WORLD - Lyrics

All around me are familiar faces
Worn out places, worn out faces
Bright and early for their daily races
Going nowhere, going nowhere
Their tears are filling up their glasses
No expression, no expression
Hide my head I want to drown my sorrow
No tomorrow, no tomorrow
And I find it kind of funny
I find it kind of sad
The dreams in which I'm dying
Are the best I've ever had
I find it hard to tell you
I find it hard to take
When people run in circles
It's a very, very
Mad World
Mad world
Children waiting for the day they feel good
Happy Birthday, Happy Birthday
And I feel the way that every child should
Sit and listen, sit and listen
Went to school and I was very nervous
No one knew me, no one knew me
Hello teacher tell me what's my lesson
Look right through me, look right through me
And I find it kind of funny
I find it kind of sad
The dreams in which I'm dying
Are the best I've ever had
I find it hard to tell you
I find it hard to take
When people run in circles
It's a very, very
Mad World
Mad World
Enlarging your world
Mad World.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

NEW DETAILS ABOUT THE SUSPECT ON CHELSEA KING'S DEATH

By Debbie Bulloch



The man who will now be charged with the kidnapping and murder of 17 year old Chelsea King has a previous history of predatory assaults on young women. Back in 2000, John Albert Gardner III was convicted of the kidnapping and rape of a 13-year-old girl.

News accounts of Gardner’s 2002 assault serve as a chilling reminder that our society needs to do more to identify and lock away rapists, especially child molesters. Available scientific data shows that these criminals will continue to re-offend – they have the highest recidivism rate of all convicted criminals.

Back in 2000, the psychiatrist who examined Gardner recommended that Gardner be sentenced to the maximum term allowed by the law – 30 years. The psychiatrist found that Gardner showed no remorse, whatsoever, for the rape and beating that he inflicted on his 13-year-old victim.

Instead of the maximum sentence, however, the judge sentenced Gardner to serve only 6 years. After serving 85% of the sentence, Gardner was release on parole where he was free, once again, to re-offend.

To read the full story of how Gardner’s 2000 crime affected one young girl, go here:

Rancho Bernardo girl knew suspect 10 years ago, mom says

Parents, tonight when your child goes to bed, go to her bedroom, hug her very tightly and tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you.

If your child no longer lives at home, call her tonight and tell her that though she may be physically far, she is still close to you in your heart, your thoughts and your prayers.

Our children are our most precious resource love them and hold them in your hand.

To Chelsea’s parents and family and to the parents and families of all missing children we send you our love and support.

Peace.

A SADNESS

By Debbie Bulloch





















A SADNESS

A sadness creeps into my room
Walking on silent cat’s paws
It crawls on my bed
Wrapping itself around me
Like an old, warm blanket.

I look out my window
Outside lies a world
Where all the colors have been removed
By a sadness that covers me
Like an old, warm blanket.

In another room
A clock tics and tocs away the minutes
But for me time is made still
By a sadness that covers me
Like an old, warm blanket

I close my eyes
And I can see a world that I once knew
Where colors and sounds
Danced in my head
Before a sadness covered me.

Go away, I whisper at the sadness
Go away and let me
But the sadness wraps itself around me
Like a purring kitten
So I hold my sadness for one more day.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

HELP FIND CHELSEA AND AMBER

By Debbie Bulloch



Two Southern California families are going through a parent’s worst nightmare: the disappearance and possible murder of a beloved child.

On February 25, a 17 year old California girl, Chelsea King went missing. Chelsea King is a straight-A student, who plays French horn for the San Diego Youth Symphony, runs on the school cross-country team and actively volunteers in a peer-counseling program.

Chelsea was born in Poway, a well-to-do suburb of homes and office parks northeast of San Diego. Chelsea is taking four Advanced Placement courses and applied to 11 colleges, with an eye toward a career that would combine her interests in writing and environmental protection. She has been accepted to two schools, University of Washington and University of British Columbia, Canada.



"She is one of the most driven, personable, caring people that you could ever meet," her father Brent King, said. "Her goal in life is to brighten everyone's day. That's what she does, and when she walks into the room, you know she's there."

Chelsea often stays up studying past midnight, working so hard that her parents urge her to ease off and spend more time with friends. Long-distance running was her escape.

On Sunday, San Diego police arrested John Gardner III, 30. Gardner remains in custody, without bail after his arrest outside a Mexican restaurant in suburban Escondido (San Diego). The police were led to Gardner by the discovery of DNA on some articles of clothing belonging to Chelsea and which were found next to the running trail near where Chelsea was last seen.

The police reports that Gardner, of Lake Elsinore, pled guilty in May 2000 to molesting a 13-year-old female neighbor and was sentenced to six years in prison. He is now a registered sex offender.

Gardner is now a primary suspect in the December 2009 attempted sexual assault of a female jogger in the same park. Police are also looking into the possibility that Gardner may be linked to the disappearance of another young San Diego area girl, Amber Dubois.



Amber Leanne Dubois, a 14-year-old San Diego, California girl, has been missing since February 2009. On February 13, 2009, Amber Dubois disappeared while walking from her home in Escondido, California, to her nearby high school. At approximately 7:10 a.m., someone saw Amber walking hurriedly toward her school in the direction of the school's athletic practice field. Shortly thereafter, Amber was seen walking about a block further at a normal pace.

Like Chelsea’s parents, Amber’s parents have been devastated by the disappearance of their daughter. In the days following Amber’s disappearance, her father wrote her the following letter:

March 06, 2009

Amber,

Hello my sweetheart, this is Dad. It's late Friday night and I wanted to write you this letter since you are not here with me. This was supposed to be our weekend together and this afternoon at about the time I should be picking you up from the train station, I was thinking about what I could do to talk to you like we would be doing right now. So I decided that tonight I would write you this letter and get it out where you might get a chance to read it.

One of your friends brought over a CD with pictures of you and your friends at their birthday beach party. Some cool pictures of you guys, one is of you running in the water at night by the pier with a cool sunset behind you. It reminds me of our midnight grunion run while camping last summer and all the fun we had that night catching all those darn fish with our hands. I guarantee on our next run, I will catch more than you!!!

Your Teacher Mr. Reyburn is keeping your lamb, ( Nénette ) for you till you get back. You can bet your Mom is looking as hard as she can for you since she will be doing your barn clean-up duties until you return.

This is still my weekend, so I will be waiting to hear from you so I can come get you. Next Friday is the 13th again and it will be a month that you have been away, I don't want to wait that long before I get my next hug from you. Well, I really just wanted to say we all miss you and love you very much. I hope you get to read this, or better yet I hope you are back in my arms soon, so I can tell you in person. Don't lose hope in our finding you. I will never lose hope in our search for you.

Always Loving You,

DAD xoxo


Amber Dubois from Carrie MCGonigle on Vimeo.



The incidence of violent attacks, including sexual assault, kidnapping and murder, against girls and women is on the rise. Scientists now agree that there is a direct link between violence against girls and women and hard core pornography depicting explicit acts of violence against women.

Our society would never stand for the graphic depiction of violence, including rape, humiliation, mutilation and murder against a specific ethnic group. Yet, society turns a blind eye towards the depiction of those same acts against females.

Pornography, of all kind, objectifies people. When persons cease to be seen as humans then it is just one short step away from turning those persons into objects of abuse. The 19th century slave trafficker turned Africans into chattel by robbing them of their humanity. More recently, Adolf Hitler and his henchmen attempted to turn Jews into objects (they even branded Jews with numbers) to better justify the genocide of a race of people.

To find out more about Chelsea King, please go here:
Find Chelsea

To find out more about Amber Dubois, please go here:
Bring Amber Home

If you have any information about Chelsea or Amber, please contact your local law enforcement agency, or contact the San Diego police departments (619.531.2000). You may also contact the FBI’s unit on missing and exploited children.

Thank you.

SAD UPDATE:

SAN DIEGO— A body found in a shallow grave Tuesday is believed to be that of 17-year-old Chelsea King, whose disappearance led to the arrest of a registered sex offender, authorities said.

The remains were found buried in a park about 10 feet from the shoreline of Lake Hodges, San Diego County Sheriff William Gore said.

"Although positive identification has not been made, there is (a) strong likelihood that we have found Chelsea," he told reporters.

Gore said he had informed the teen's parents.

"Obviously they are devastated and I ask that you respect their privacy during this extremely difficult time," he said.

Missing California teen's body believed found


EDITOR’S NOTE: If you have children, please read and follow the following “25 Ways to Make Your Kids Safer” for protecting your child. There are no guarantees in life, but if parents are prepared (and if they prepare their children) perhaps the odds of a horrible tragedy occurring will be minimized.

25 ways to make kids safer

At Home

1. Teach your children their full names, address, and home telephone number. Make sure they know your full name.

2. Make sure your children know how to reach you at work or on your cell phone.

3. Teach your children how and when to use 911 and make sure your children have a trusted adult to call if they’re scared or have an emergency.

4. Instruct children to keep the door locked and not to open the door to talk to anyone when they are home alone. Set rules with your children about having visitors over when you’re not home and how to answer the telephone.

5. Choose babysitters with care. Obtain references from family, friends, and neighbors. Once you have chosen the caregiver, drop in unexpectedly to see how your children are doing. Ask children how the experience with the caregiver was and listen carefully to their responses.

On the Net

6. Learn about the Internet. The more you know about how the Web works, the better prepared you are to teach your children about potential risks. Visit www.NetSmartz.org for more information about Internet safety.

7. Place the family computer in a common area, rather than a child’s bedroom. Also, monitor their time spent online and the websites they’ve visited and establish rules for Internet use.

8. Know what other access your child may have to the Internet at school, libraries, or friends’ homes.

9. Use privacy settings on social networking sites to limit contact with unknown users and make sure screen names don’t reveal too much about your children.

10. Encourage your children to tell you if anything they encounter online makes them feel sad, scared, or confused.

11. Caution children not to post revealing information or inappropriate photos of themselves or their friends online.

At School

12. Walk the route to and from school with your children, pointing out landmarks and safe places to go if they’re being followed or need help. If your children ride a bus, visit the bus stop with them to make sure they know which bus to take.

13. Remind kids to take a friend whenever they walk or bike to school. Remind them to stay with a group if they’re waiting at the bus stop.

14. Caution children never to accept a ride from anyone unless you have told them it is OK to do so in each instance.

Out and About

15. Take your children on a walking tour of the neighborhood and tell them whose homes they may visit without you.

16. Remind your children it’s OK to say NO to anything that makes them feel scared, uncomfortable, or confused and teach your children to tell you if anything or anyone makes them feel this way.

17. Teach your children to ask permission before leaving home.

18. Remind your children not to walk or play alone outside.

19. Teach your children to never approach a vehicle, occupied or not, unless they know the owner and are accompanied by a parent, guardian, or other trusted adult.

20. Practice "what if" situations and ask your children how they would respond. “What if you fell off your bike and you needed help? Who would you ask?”

21. Teach your children to check in with you if there is a change of plans.

22. During family outings, establish a central, easy-to-locate spot to meet for check-ins or should you get separated.

23. Teach your children how to locate help at theme parks, sports stadiums, shopping malls, and other public places. Also, identify those people who they can ask for help, such as uniformed law enforcement, security guards and store clerks with nametags.

24. Help your children learn to recognize and avoid potential risks, so that they can deal with them if they happen.

25. Teach your children that if anyone tries to grab them, they should make a scene and make every effort to get away by kicking, screaming, and resisting.