THE HOMELESS AMONG US

By Debbie Bulloch



35 "For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was homeless and you invited me in, 36I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'

37 "Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38When did we see you homeless and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?'

40 "The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'

Matthew 25:35-40 (New International Version – NIV)

Over the past few weeks the focus of this blog has shifted slightly. Posts about music, poetry, prose and photography are all well and good – and a lot of fun for me to write and (I hope) for you to read. We should not, however, let fun and games distract our attention away from our mission at Between Homes: to provide a place for homeless SL avis AND in doing so bring into focus the problem of homelessness in RL.

Normally, I do not like to push religion on anyone. I will respect and defend your right to believe in what you wish to believe in, as long as you respect and defend my own rights. That seems fair to me.

There is, however, a simple beauty to the message contained in the Biblical passage from the Gospel of Matthew that I wanted to share it with you. That message rings especially true in these difficult times.

It is very easy for many of us to look at the poor and the homeless and then turn the other way. We can rationalize them away by making statements such as, “Well, I can’t fix it all,” “It is the government’s responsibility,” “It must be their fault, they must have done something ‘wrong’ in order to end up homeless,” or “That could never happen to me or my family.” The last two comments are representative of a dangerous mindset that marginalizes the poor and the homeless making it easier to ignore their plight.



The beauty in the words attributed to Jesus by Matthew is that they reflect the simple fact that the homeless and the poor are us and we are them. In these hard economic times there is only a very thin line separating “them” from “us.” A recent article from the Ventura County Star describes how many of us are one or two paychecks away from falling into a situation that will lead to being homeless. It does not even have to be a matter of losing one’s job (and income). A major illness, a traumatic injury even a divorce can send families, including young children into the streets. The problem is not limited to any particular social or educational group; even middle class professional people can end up on the streets. It is not just the USA that is affected by these issues, even countries with reputedly good social safety nets have seen a recent spike in the number of the homeless in their midst.

In Los Angeles County, for example, the homeless population seems to grow every year. An article by the Los Angeles Times reveals the large number of people who do not have a place to call home. The county where I live - a very affluent county where many wealthy people, including show business stars, make their home - has also seen a rise in the number of the poor and homeless. Compared to Los Angeles County, where poverty and homelessness are endemic, even right under the watchful eyes of the big HOLLYWOOD sign, the number of homeless in Ventura County is miniscule. Of course, that is small consolation to the family who calls home a drafty tent by the river’s bed. Even one homeless person, in what has been billed as the richest country in world history is one too many.



So what can we do to lessen the problem? I do not have answers, but I can offer many suggestions. There many things that you can do to a difference in the lives of the homeless.

1. Never give cash to a homeless person.

Sometimes even well intended gifts are converted to drugs or alcohol - even when the "hard luck" stories they tell are true. If the person is hungry, buy them a sandwich and a cup of coffee. (See my two-part story about meeting Jenny.)

2. Talk to the person with respect.

Taking time to talk to a homeless person in a friendly, respectful manner can give them a wonderful sense of civility and dignity. And besides being just neighborly, it gives the person a weapon to fight the isolation, depression and paranoia that many homeless people face.

3. Recognize that homeless people (and their problems) are not all the same.

The homeless are as diverse as the colors of a rainbow. The person you meet may be a battered woman, an abused young person, an addicted veteran, someone who is lacking job skills...the list goes on.

4. Take precautions for your own safety.

Some living on the streets are criminals and fugitives running from the law. Always be prudent while talking with street people. Stay in areas where other people can see you. Don't take unnecessary chances – protect yourself and your family.

5. Encourage the homeless to get help through local shelters and food banks.

Shelters offer food and shelter to the homelessness. Nothing is scarier than sleeping out on the streets, or inside your car, not knowing what will happen to you. Shelters, even if crowded, provide a place to sleep in relative safety. Many shelters also offer long-term rehabilitation programs that deal with the root causes of homeless. Other shelters may also offer "tickets" or “vouchers” that the homeless can exchange for a nutritious meal at a local restaurant, safe overnight lodging at nearby motels even the option of participating in a rehabilitation program. Become familiar with what your local shelters offer and then pass the information along.



6. Support your local shelter.

Most shelters receive little or no government funding. They are supported by caring individuals, churches, businesses, and civic groups who see the value of sharing their resources with the less fortunate. Donations of food, books, clothing and money are welcomed. But even if all you have to donate is your time, do it please. Shelters rely on volunteer labor to make up for funding shortages. Go spend time in a soup kitchen serving food - if you have a skill, like cutting hair, go and volunteer – sometimes a fresh haircut can mean the difference between getting a job and being rejected. Lawyers and doctors are especially needed. Lawyers can help with the many legal issues that often affect the homeless. Doctors and nurses, obviously, can help the homeless with health issues. Remember that volunteering your time at a shelter is a mutually rewarding experience – the homeless person gets the benefit of your assistance but YOU receive the joy that comes only from helping our brothers and sisters. To paraphrase those ubiquitous Nike commercial: JUST DO IT!

7. Help a homeless person find a job.

If you own your own business you may be in a position to hire the homeless. Take a chance on the homeless and hire them. Even a part-time, low wage (do not exploit the homeless) job can make a huge difference. If you are not in a position to hire, then maybe you know someone who is hiring, get them to commit to hiring the homeless.

8. “Adopt” a homeless family.

You do not have to bring a homeless family to live with your family – especially if you are concerned for your safety. But you can sponsor a homeless family by agreeing to pay for a week (or longer if you are able to) at a local motel. It does not have to be a fancy place, just a place with a soft bed and a hot shower. Pre-pay for meals at a local restaurant. If you cannot afford to do it all yourself (I know, money is tight) get family members to contribute, get your employer to help out, heck, even make it a neighborhood project. Get your local motel or family restaurant to help out by giving you a break on their costs to house and feed a homeles family. Tell the business about all the goodwill publicity their business will receive – a quid pro quo that may convince many to help! If you can sponsor a family, especially during the holidays when things seem rougher for those without a place to stay, you will be blessing them with a memory they will never forget.

9. “Adopt” a homeless pet.

The large number of job lay-offs and home foreclosures has resulted in a large number of homeless pets. Some people, unable to care for their pets, leave them behind in a foreclosed home or, worse, have them put down. If you have a house with a large yard (or even a modest yard) offer to “babysit” someone’s pet. If you don’t have a place of your own, offer to help pay for vet’s bills

10. Open up your heart and make the commitment to help.

Remember that any kindness, however small, has the potential for changing a life. Also remember that what you do for the less fortunate members of our society you are also doing it for yourself. To paraphrase the Gospel of Matthew: 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for you.'



Thank you for reading. Tomorrow we will go back to our other features. Maybe Spanish phrases of the week (or French or French and Spanish.)

Phil Collins - "Another Day In Paradise"



Peace out!

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A GOOD DAY TO BE AN AMERICAN

By Debbie Bulloch

Today is an especially good day to be an American. With the inauguration of Barack Obama as the country’s 44th President we as a nation, have finally collected on that promise made long ago - that all men are created equal. If a black American can be elected President, then the doors are wide-open for any person, regardless of gender or race, to also become President of this country. If there was ever any doubt that America is the land of opportunity, then Obama’s election to the highest office in the land should silence the doubters.

I wanted to stay home today to watch the inauguration ceremonies, and especially to watch Obama deliver his inaugural speech. But I had meetings to attend to at work, so off to work I went. As I drove to my office I wondered what kind of mood my co-workers would be in. Well, I did not have to wonder for long. As soon as I walked through the front door I was approached by a co-worker who gave me a huge hug and said, in a voice I had not heard her use in a very long time, “Oh Debbie I am so happy today!”

I hugged her back and I told her how we were all happy for our new President and for our country.

Then she added, “Debbie, when my mom was a little girl she had to ride on the back of the bus. She used to tell me that some day we would have a black President, but I just never believed that I would ever see the day.”

Then with tears in her eyes she added, “I only wish mom had lived to see this day.”

The rest of my co-workers were equally excited about today’s events. It was as if, at least temporarily, a new wave of optimism had swept through the office.

Obama’s election has infused the country with a sense of hope – the country is on the grips of a new “can do” attitude. This is exactly the kind of “medicine” that we need at this time.

The U.S. is not a perfect country – far from it. Prejudice still abounds, people still go hungry, there are still homeless people sleeping on the streets of our biggest and richest cities and we are still involved in foreign entanglements of dubious nature. Even in the midst of massive problems, however, we are still optimistic about our future as a people and as a nation – that is because we are not afraid to confront the worst in us and work on fixing it.

Our generosity defines us as a nation and gives us the strength to keep moving forward. Our detractors (they are legion) like to minimize America’s generosity and, instead, accuse us of having ulterior motives. In response, I ask them to look at the many examples of American generosity and our capacity to make sacrifices for others.

In the darkest days of World War II, when all hope seemed to have been lost, America sent war material, food and supplies to assist our European brothers and sisters resist the advances of Nazi Germany. When that was not enough, and Europe seemed lost to a madman hell-bent on imposing his will on the rest of the world, America looked inward at its best resource, its people, and without hesitation or pre-conditions we sent our young men to fight and die in foreign soil so that one man would not enslave the rest of the world.

When natural disasters devastate other parts of the world, America digs deep into its pocket to help ease the suffering. Time and time again, after every major natural disaster, America’s planes have flown to the crisis area to deliver much needed relief.

Just recently, the often-demonized President Bush was credited with orchestrating the single, biggest assistance package to help end the scourge of AIDS in the African continent. American have not allowed our own precarious financial situation to get on the way of assistance to our African brothers and sisters.

And now we have elected, for the first time in our nation’s history, a black American to lead us during these troubling times. I look around at the rest of the world and we are the only industrialized nation to elect a President who is only one generation removed from a dusty village in a Third World country. That alone, is enough reason to put a smile on my face.

Regardless of the kind of President that Obama may eventually turn out to be, today I am proud to be an American. We have turned an important corner in our nation’s quest to fulfill the promises of its birth.

Today is indeed a good day to be an American!